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WHY DO PEOPLE GET MARRIED?

People get married for so many reasons; some don’t even know why they should get married, while some don’t even wish to. I was opportune to ask a friend this question. And she gave me some reasons am going to share and you will tell me if she is right or if there are more to that. First and foremost, WHAT IS MARRIAGE? The word marriage has different meaning and different perspectives. According to the English dictionary, MARRIAGE is a union between two or more people usually to the exclusion of others. The Bible defines Marriage as a Holy Union between a man and a woman for eternity in the presence of God. But what is the reason behind getting married? Why is it so important? According to Kefe Ejoboja ( ceo KiKi's Food ): 1.        People get married for ACCOMPLISHMENT because everyone gets married at one point in their life and it’s trending, some people just want to be called married Mr and Mrs. They feel they earn respect or have ...

LOL - Woman got married to a white mannequin in place of Europe based fiance

It was a funny sight to behold after this photo became viral on the social media sphere of a young bride getting wedded to a white mannequin which stood in the place of her fiance who is purportedly based abroad. According to some people who know the lady, she has been dating the guy whom she met on the Internet and has never seen him before. After much pressure from her parents to get married, she and the young man arranged to have their traditional wedding but since he would not be around, they sought a replacement but with no man willing to take his place, they settled for the mannequin, though many have questioned their decision to use a white mannequin for the groom. I can't imagine why she went ahead to post the pic on her facebook page

Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt set to Divorce You Wont Believe Why

Los Angeles - Angelina Jolie has filed for divorce from Brad Pitt. The Rough Rider star reportedly submitted papers to end the couple's two-year marriage on Monday, citing irreconcilable differences for their split. According to  TMZ , Angelina is seeking physical custody of their six children, Maddox, 15, Pax, 12, Zahara, 11, Shiloh, 10, and twins Knox and Vivienne, eight, but wants a judge to give the 52-year-old actor visitation rights. According to  TMZ , the 41-year-old beauty decided to end their marriage because she was “extremely upset” with the way the Moneyball star has been parenting the kids and so decided to seek joint legal custody, but not joint physical custody. The actress-turned-director is not seeking spousal support. She is being represented by Laura Wasser, who recently represented Johnny Depp in his split from Amber Heard. The documents state the couple's date of separation as 15 September 2016. They mar...

Nigerian Lady got Engaged to a guy she met Facebook

The newly-engaged Susan explains, with enough romantic words and quite a number of smileys, how she and her Fiance connected after he had sent her a simple ‘Hey’ message on Facebook. “It all started with "hey,” two years ago on Facebook,” she wrote. “And you know how some girls (me) are, we would reply years later. “Well I replied like 12 days later and he said "I know your sister." In my mind, I said "see this one famzing." “[To] cut [the] long story short, I kept replying days after he sen[t] messages, especially when I knew we were like over 6000miles apart; until we clicked. “We all know how it goes… from there... We kept in touch and fell in love along the way. “Saw him for the first time last year and upon our second meeting this year, I said yes to my best friend (the only best friend I have actually), my brother, my lover for life and my knight @cashmyles. “So yeah, I cut the long story short sha. I'm engaged. W...

5 Ways to Help you FORGIVE your Spouse

Making mistakes is only natural; and as partners, it is only normal to have misunderstandings once in a while. When these mistakes happen, and one of the spouses is angry and/or hurt, what stops the relationship from going downhill is forgiveness. We understand that forgiving is easier said than done, especially when you were really offended or hurt by what your partner did, or if that action is a recurrent one. In these instances, forgiveness might not be so easy to grant, but with the steps below, you could learn to not only forgive, but also forget more easily . 1. Give your partner the benefit of the doubt There is always more than one angle to view an issue from. Before you jump into a fit of rage, why not rest easy for a moment, take a deep breath and consider your options. According to an american  marriage and relationship expert  Lesli Doares ,   "choosing the interpretation that puts your partner in the most positive light makes forgiven...

MARRIAGE is like a Shoe...

"MARRIAGE is like a shoe. When you wear oversize, be ready to drag it along through out life, and when you wear under-size be ready to feel the pains through out life". One thing about marriage is that you don't drop your shoe or remove it at any point, no matter how painful or how stressful it is. That is why I thought it necessary to write you this letter. Dear Singles, When you are ready to buy your own shoe please take note of these three things: 1. PHYSICAL APPEARANCE : Do not look for the beautiful ones, the nice ones or the cheap ones. Look for the one that is your size. Not every handsome, wealthy or intelligent guy is for you, not every beautiful woman is for you. Look for the one that is meant for you, the one that aligns with your values and belief, the one who you meet at your life's journey. It is important to know where you're going in life before you think of getting a wife. 2. POSITION : All sizes of shoes are not placed in the sam...

See What a Man told His Wife on their Wedding Night

My wife, everyone has gone home. The music is quiet, the celebration is over. Our wedding was beautiful but it is now in the past.  We have finished the wedding/marriage, it is now time to build our marriage. All that is left now is the two of us…  What we will become tomorrow, starts from tonight. Our life is no longer the same. There was a day you put on one red dress…  You looked so beautiful in it. That Day I wanted to just touch you! We were in the Cinema and I was so tempted.  I wanted to just take you inside the toilet and kiss you but I couldn’t. Guess what? Now I have you forever, I can do that everyday. Before I take off your cloth and make love to you… let me tell you few things.  I have nothing to hide from you from this day. My phone, you can use it like your own.  You can access my Facebook, my twitter and my Instagram From today, I have become a child.  For the past five years of my life, I have been a man...

15 Lessons From Tiwa's Crisis

Most opinions on this issue are largely deduced from what was reported in the media. And so, this latest effort of mine is no exception. The interest here (for me) are the lessons therein. Success (career wise) is also a ‘baggage’ and he/she who is yoked with ‘the successful’ should learn to make sacrifices…they won’t always be available. If the money (thanks to a career!) you touch is not ‘average money’, please do not expect your union to be like that of an average Joe and Jane…who sip wine (with home cooked meals) in the patio-every evening. Such ‘everyday’ occurrences are a rare privilege to a serious money chaser. No matter how ‘busy’ you are, if you cannot be domestically available to a spouse, at least- be emotionally available to him/her. Sometimes, it is not the ‘busyness’ that tears a union apart but the lack of effort/interest in making up for one’s absence. The person to whom every other person (but himself) is responsible for his misfortunes in life doesn’t ma...

Are Women Evil?

Did you know, women really are evil.I know It sounds absurd – But take it from me and the thousands of divorced men who found out the hard way – Women really are evil. Unlike the movies, you cannot spot their degree of evilness easily. You cannot spot it when you are courting them, nor when you pop the question or say I do. What may surprise you is that you cannot even spot it after you are married. The only time you will see the true nature of your be troth’s evil is during your divorce. Their evil breath will tear the flesh from your bones like a modern day dragon. All married people must understand this – you will get divorced.Unless you are some kind of superman it is going to happen to you. Current US statistics show that 67% of marriages will fail. The mathematical odds are that you will be getting divorced.So if you are not yet divorced, you better start planning it. I hope that day never comes for you, but if I was able to tell you that the odds of you...

LOL..... Photo of The Day

 Seriously Ladies not all yes ends up saying I DO, think carefully. this days all i see on the net is: HE ASKED!!! OMG I SAID YES!!! Tomorrow comes no wedding pic. Tread with Care...... Peace

Egyptian Blogger Sentenced to 3years in Prison

An Egyptian blogger has reportedly been sentenced to three years in jail with hard labour over stereotypical statements made on National Television. The blogger, Taymour el-Sobki reportedly claimed on national television that 30% of Egyptian wives would cheat on their husbands if they had the chance leading to the charge of ‘spreading false news’. The Egyptian court responsible for El-Sobki's sentencing claims that his comments had the potential to "harm public peace and damage the public interest." The blogger has reportedly suffered serious backlash from other TV talk show hosts as well as civilians who have filed complaints to public prosecutors with El-Sobki being accused of insulting Egyptian women. Daily Mail reports that El-Sobki had initially said: "Many women cheat on their husbands. I can say that 30 percent of women are ready to be deviant". El-Sobki went on to specify cities where the behaviour is supposed to be prevalent whic...

Strange!! Woman Got Married to Her Dog

In a fairly interesting unforeseen development, a lady has pledged against men and wedded her pet Dog. 47 year old. Amanda Rodgers from Brixton in south London was married to a man 20 years back, however the relationship lamentably endured close to a couple short months, so dissapointed she chose to swear against men and swing to Dogs. Amanda states that she chose to marry her pet Dog because in light of the fact that she had every one of the qualities that she was searching for in a man: "Sheba had been a major part of my life for a considerable length of time, making me laugh and consoling me when I was feeling sad." Procedures began traditionally, when Amanda got down on one knee and proposed to her pet, Sheba. In spite of the fact that the canine couldn't react, Rodgers says that she "could tell by her tail wagging that she said yes." More than 200 individuals went to the wedding which occurred in Split, Croatia. Rodgers grasped the day completely e...