Welcome to KellHubs

Over the course of our lives, we will all experience a struggle of one kind or another. We are not alone when we encounter heartbreak, death, or sickness. But when the worst of times comes, when we’re forced to face these trials, our goal  should not be to try to smile them away, to ignore the pain and suffering, or to shove them down into a deep, dark place. So what should our goal be? It’s easy to panic in the midst of the storm as the disciples did in the boat — when, with blank minds, we forget who is by our side and assume the absolute worst. But panic cannot be our next step. In fact, panic often prevents us from taking any next steps at all. It’s also easy to let this trouble of ours fester and stew beneath the surface, resulting in anger and depression deep down below the feigned happiness. We find someone else to blame, whether God or doctors or others, and resent them throughout our day. If we let it, bitterness then easily infects and destroys our lives. It tur...

According to Marshable , Having the same goals as your partner is important, whether they involve your careers, family or finances. To achieve those goals and live in harmony, it helps to be on the same track, working together toward the same things. If one partner has the goal of  getting out of debt  while the other is constantly spending, there’s bound to be friction. It’s important to discuss these differences and make a plan to address any issues as a couple. Remind yourselves that you’re a team and better off when working together. Having some extra cash on hand will help you work toward goals such as paying off student loans, saving up for a wedding or a down payment on a house, or starting a family. Here are four simple ways couples can start saving money today: 1. Rethink date night How often do the two of you have a date night? Some couples have a weekly date night where they go out to a fancy restaurant, order drinks and then do an activity afterwar...

Making mistakes is only natural; and as partners, it is only normal to have misunderstandings once in a while. When these mistakes happen, and one of the spouses is angry and/or hurt, what stops the relationship from going downhill is forgiveness. We understand that forgiving is easier said than done, especially when you were really offended or hurt by what your partner did, or if that action is a recurrent one. In these instances, forgiveness might not be so easy to grant, but with the steps below, you could learn to not only forgive, but also forget more easily . 1. Give your partner the benefit of the doubt There is always more than one angle to view an issue from. Before you jump into a fit of rage, why not rest easy for a moment, take a deep breath and consider your options. According to an american  marriage and relationship expert  Lesli Doares ,   "choosing the interpretation that puts your partner in the most positive light makes forgiven...

Relationships always involve giving, sharing and reaching compromises. Given the fact that men are generally believed to be the stronger of the pair and sometimes, often the provider, it is not uncommon that women usually have things to ask, demands to make, and changes required of their significant other. Here are 3 sure ways that will help you get whatever you want anytime you make the request of your man. 1. Go straight to the point In an attempt to avoid looking so direct and demanding, some choose the other option of ‘stylishly’ making the requests. This is done by dropping hints, and communicating their desire for that particular thing in no express terms.  If you want to get an answer, you need to stick to the point rather than communicating through subtext. Often times, the intention is even lost on your man during the indirect asking and hint-droppings. Hence, make a request for the thing that you actually want, or you just might not get it. 2. Don't guilt ...

Women are the sexiest people on the planet and they are sexy in all kinds of ways. In fact, every woman is sexy in her own way, every woman defines sexiness in her own way and every woman exhibits sexiness in her own way. There are quite a few things women do that are unintentionally sexy, though. These makes guys go crazy. That's how sexy they are – they're sexy without even trying, without even knowing that they are sexy. Here are some ways they turn up sexy even without knowing:  1.) Loving their body : Because men love what they see, it's fascinating to them to see a woman who just loves the way she is and is super confident about her body. As a woman, love your curves, your sharp angles and your soft edges. Also, love your scars, your stretch marks, your best features, and your problem areas. These only make you a confident beautiful woman.  2.) Having a sense of humor : There is nothing sexier than bringing laughter into someone's sad day, week or even ...

Like a snake, secrets have a way of showing its ugly head when you least expect and the bad thing about keeping it inside is you have to bottle it up with a lie and more lies which will eventually blow up in your face in the end and destroy every relationship you’ve worked so hard to maintain over the years. Inspired by Huffington Post , here are 4 ways keeping secrets can destroy your relationship  1. It messes up your health The time and energy used in keeping secrets and looking over your shoulder can be spent doing something else. You keep thinking, become anxious and depressed which can result in serious health complications. 2. You are open to disrespect Keeping secrets from your partner could blow up in your face when they find out and their level or respect totally drops for you 3. You create room for distrust When your partner knows you aren’t being truthful to them, they stop trusting you because they can't even tell when you are telling the truth about someth...