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Why do we Have Sex? PT 1

Sex, since the history of man or human evolution has gone through several changes, even in terms of definition and form and the individuals engaging in it. Once upon a time, sex was thought to be primarily for reproductive reasons, then for the relief of sexual tension and later, for the sexual pleasure. Right from the explosive documentation of the Kama Sutra, various studies and experiences have been carried out by persons and institutions to unravel the mystery of human sexology and why, besides procreation, sex is important to mortal men and women. From the researches of Alfred Kinsey who is regarded as the father of sexology in the 40s and 50s to Masters and Johnson’s famous researches on orgasms of the 60s and 70s, sex has become a subject of great interest to all. Now, a research conducted by psychologists Cindy Meston and David Buss on why women have sex which is published in the Archives of Sexual Behaviour, the duo in their new book of the same title, have...

6 Problems that causes Divorce

Serious marriage problems don’t happen overnight; they creep up on people gradually. And shockingly, research shows that, on average, people live in misery for six years or longer before seeking help. Furthermore, most people who leave their marriages never receive help at all; they just leave. What should people in the throes of marriage problems do instead? Get help when things start going downhill. Nip things in the bud. And if you’re wondering how to know when your marriage is headed for trouble, read on.  1. You’re thinking about having an affair.  There are many reasons you may be tempted to have an affair. You may want the excitement that comes from a new relationship. You may want passionate s*x with a different partner. You may be longing for attention and appreciation. You might enjoy risk-taking. You may be longing to connect with someone who you think is more similar to you. You might want to escape daily responsibilities and routines. There is no ...

Things You Don't Know Women Lie About

Okay, we know the most common one: most women lie about the “O” word. But there are other things besides that the modern woman lies about. Very often! THEIR first gig For most adult women, the first sexual experience is unforgettable and probably the best ever. Even if they have not kept in touch with their first man, they remember him with fondness if he did not leave them pregnant and stranded with a baby. But will they ever tell their man this? Never. Studies show the average woman lies about the age at which she was disvirgined, adding anything between 2 and 10 years to the age. For instance, if a woman got disvirgined at 14, she is likely to put the figure at 20 to her current man. Men, on the other hand, openly boast about their earlier sexual conquests. That they check out other men. A man might be so close to the girl in his life that he would point out other women’s body parts that he finds attractive and everybody would have a good laugh. On the other hand, a woman...

How Abacha sold out Nelson Mandela

Past South African President, Thabo Mbeki, who served as president after Nelson Mandela, has portrayed how past Nigerian Head of State and Dictator, General Sani Abacha, tricked him, his country and Mandela. Mbeki, while exploring the part South Africa played when all is said in done events and in ensuring general human rights, passed on that "we limited the undermining general diktat of the overall public who, to their most obvious motivation behind slant, see themselves and go about as the broad thoughtful hegemon." Mbeki said this on his Facebook page update which he titled: "Purposeful thought AND THE PURSUIT OF HEGEMONIC GOALS – THE MYANMAR AND ZIMBABWE EXPERIENCE." It inspects: "Much has been formed about how much the charged general party expected the new South Africa imagined in 1994 to lead the fight for valuation for human rights especially in Africa. The fundamental true blue test which went up against our late President Mandela in such way...

Top 10 Everday Stressors for Women

Don’t forget to pause and nourish yourself a bit along the way. When you’re born to help others sometimes you forget to help yourself. ~ Paula Heller Garland   What kind of nourishment do you need most for the pace and challenges of your unique life?  David, the wild-hearted Shepherd-Warrior-King, wrote psalms full of prayers for superhuman energy bursts.    For by You I can run against a troop, by my God I can leap over a wall. – Psalm 18:29   We all need bursts of that Davidic energy at times, like Red Bull for the soul. But mostly I need steady nourishment in the nonstop caring for a little one, especially during football and baseball season when my husband’s coaching job keeps him gone late hours.  Most days my prayers are less like David’s and more like Paul’s encouragement to the Galatians:   And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up. – Galatians 6:9 ...

Ten Ways To Manage Your Passion Against Illegal Sex

Sexual abstinence can range from engaging in absolutely no sexual behavior to everything but penetrative intercourse.  Abstaining from sex with your long-term partner, whether from choice or necessity, is something many couples practice (whether they want to or not) during their relationship,  You and your partner's reasons for practicing abstinence may derive from your religious beliefs or be medically necessary, but they can also be personally motivated.  No matter the reason, and no matter your age or experience-level, implementing abstinence in a relationship can be challenging, particularly if you and your partner have already engaged in sexual activity  If you're single and dating, your commitment to maintain abstinence should be a priority, not something you hide.  In all cases, it's a good idea to put some thought, creativity and discussion into how being abstinent will affect you and your partner. below are 10 ways to manage you passion...

Four Telenovela Actress You Probably Don't Know Are Dead

Have you ever just come across an article online, and realized that one of your favourite telenovela star is dead and you just didn't know about it? Well, we have put together a list of four telenovela stars we bet you love, who you probably didn't know had passed away. Here we go; 1. Andriana Campos: The actress died alongside her husband, Carlos Rincón, passed away in a tragic car accident on Tuesday, November 3, 2015. The actress was popular for her role as as Pricila Cardona in "Bella Calamidades" (Beautiful but unlucky). The actress left behind her one-year-old baby boy. 2. Lorena Rojas: Popular for her role as Isabel in the popular telenovela "El Cuerpo Del Deseo," Lorena Rojas a 7- year fight with cancer less than a week after celebrating her 44th birthday. 3. Karla Alvarez: Álvarez was found dead on November 15, 2013 at her apartment due to respiratory failure. Álvarez was rumored to have suffered from alcoholism and allegedly had...

YAHOO BOY APPREHENDED BY THE EFCC FOR €53, 000 FRAUD

The Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, EFCC, appreheded one Tonwerigha Oyintonbra Tombrown for purportedly duping an Irish pro, Izabela Glogowska to the tune of €53,000 (about N11.6million) in an Internet scam. According to a declaration by the delegate of the antigraft association, Wilson Uwajaren, the Irish woman Glogowska charged that Tombrown who acted like a detectable online merchant Michael Freeman, betrayed her into sending him €1,000 through Western Union/Money gram as portion for a business deal. She included that he later put a show to be one Ben Andrews asking for an additional €10,000 stating that there was a technique change. The same Andrews provoked her to send the trade to Tombrown out Nigeria, who twisted up possessing the money to a fake record.  Attempts to recover her money showed unproductive, from now on she engaged the EFCC. The suspect would be charged to court when examinations are done up.

See What a Man told His Wife on their Wedding Night

My wife, everyone has gone home. The music is quiet, the celebration is over. Our wedding was beautiful but it is now in the past.  We have finished the wedding/marriage, it is now time to build our marriage. All that is left now is the two of us…  What we will become tomorrow, starts from tonight. Our life is no longer the same. There was a day you put on one red dress…  You looked so beautiful in it. That Day I wanted to just touch you! We were in the Cinema and I was so tempted.  I wanted to just take you inside the toilet and kiss you but I couldn’t. Guess what? Now I have you forever, I can do that everyday. Before I take off your cloth and make love to you… let me tell you few things.  I have nothing to hide from you from this day. My phone, you can use it like your own.  You can access my Facebook, my twitter and my Instagram From today, I have become a child.  For the past five years of my life, I have been a man...

15 Lessons From Tiwa's Crisis

Most opinions on this issue are largely deduced from what was reported in the media. And so, this latest effort of mine is no exception. The interest here (for me) are the lessons therein. Success (career wise) is also a ‘baggage’ and he/she who is yoked with ‘the successful’ should learn to make sacrifices…they won’t always be available. If the money (thanks to a career!) you touch is not ‘average money’, please do not expect your union to be like that of an average Joe and Jane…who sip wine (with home cooked meals) in the patio-every evening. Such ‘everyday’ occurrences are a rare privilege to a serious money chaser. No matter how ‘busy’ you are, if you cannot be domestically available to a spouse, at least- be emotionally available to him/her. Sometimes, it is not the ‘busyness’ that tears a union apart but the lack of effort/interest in making up for one’s absence. The person to whom every other person (but himself) is responsible for his misfortunes in life doesn’t ma...

BASIC PRINCIPLES OF INSURANCE

The main motive of insurance is cooperation. Insurance is defined as the equitable transfer of risk of loss from one entity to another, in exchange for a premium. 1. Nature of contract : Nature of contract is a fundamental principle of insurance contract. An insurance contract comes into existence when one party makes an offer or proposal of a contract and the other party accepts the proposal. A contract should be simple to be a valid contract. The person entering into a contract should enter with his free consent. 2. Principal of utmost good faith : Under this insurance contract both the parties should have faith over each other. As a client it is the duty of the insured to disclose all the facts to the insurance company. Any fraud or misrepresentation of facts can result into cancellation of the contract. 3. Principle of Insurable interest : Under this principle of insurance, the insured must have interest in the subject matter of the insurance. Absence of insurance...

IMPORTANCE OF HAVING INSURANCE

Human beings, his family and properties are always exposed to different kinds of risks. Risk involve the losses. Insurance is a tool which reduces the cost of loss or effect of loss caused by variety of risk. It accumulates funds to meet individual losses. It is not device to prevent unwanted event of happening or cause of loss but protects them against that loss by compensating which as lost. The role and importance of insurance are discussed as follows: 1. Insurance provides security Insurance provides safety and security against the loss on a particular event. Life insurance provides security against death and old age sufferings. Fire insurance protects against loss due to fire while Marine insurance provides protection and safety against loss of ship and cargo. For personal accident and sickness insurance financial protection is given when the individual is unable to earn. In other insurance too, this security is provided against the loss at a given contingency....

TYPES OF INSURANCE

Prior to becoming self-employed, there are a number of factors that need to be considered and clarified, including social security, insurance coverage and retirement provisions. Being well-informed will help you implement the steps and measures required for your social and professional security. In principle, insurances can be divided into three main categories: personal, property and asset insurances. It is difficult to make a general statement about coverage needs of new or potential entrepreneurs as these needs largely depends on the type of business and the individual risk situation. We recommend that you consult an insurance expert and request offers from various providers. Some general information concerning the different types of insurance is provided in the following. Overview of contents Personal insurances Property insurances Buildings insurance (fire) Property insurance (chattels) Technical insurances Transport ins...