The biggest truth is that cheating never solves a relationship problem.
Let’s face it: cheating has always been about searching for something one lacks. The society remains oblivious of the uncourteous behaviour of the many men who cheat invariably every day.
Women who cheat are branded as the devil’s agents, regardless of whether their reasons are ‘legitimate.’
Yes, legitimate.
Below are 4 legitimate reasons couples cheat on one another.
- When the sex is repetitive
Repetition
of the same sex position, in the same environment, makes the sexual
encounter boring; it sucks the juice out of the act.
Couples can revive their sex life by subscribing to some variety in sexual positions.
Out of the box locations are also definitely a great way to spice things up and create some awesome memories.
Having
a sexual encounter in a new location gets your adrenaline pumping,
which helps you get even more aroused than usual, making those thrilling
experiences unforgettable.
- Revenge
Some
women find it difficult to forgive after being cheated. For those of
you who have been cheated on, you know how awful it feels: you feel
deceived, hurt, angry, sad and even violated. It also affects your
self-esteem.
The very moment you find out that
your man has cheated, your whole body begins to shake, you begin to
sweat, your stomach drops, and you feel nauseated.
The pain and betrayal you feel can inspire infidelity. Cheating then becomes a solution.
But
the biggest truth is that cheating never solves a relationship problem.
Communication, assertiveness and increasing passion and romance are
much better solutions.
- Loneliness within the marriage
Some women engage in extramarital affairs when they are not given the needed attention and care they desire from their husbands.
Irrespective of how busy one might be at work, spending some intimate moments with your partner is a mandatory responsibility.
Travelling
together, having dinners, going to the movies and doing other things
together in romantic ways, spruces up the relationship and fosters
trust.
Some women find solace in other men when
they feel lonely. This isn’t rocket science. And this, as expected, can
lead to cheating and eventually, even divorce; when the bond between
them and their extra-marital/relationship partners deepens.
- Feeling under appreciated
Women are always eager to please men when they are in a relationship.
Cooking
a romantic dinner, buying sexy lingerie, and listening with your heart,
are just a few ways you may show your love and appreciation.
However, some men fail to appreciate the tender, loving care bestowed on them by their partners.
We
all have thresholds, and once yours is reached, you may decide to act
on a simple "thank you, please,” or a complex “I love you," coming from
another direction. Let your man know he may lose you if he continues to
take you for granted.
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