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I am fascinated by the way lions hunt. Ive read that its the lionesses that actually do the lions share of the work. The males are obviously incredibly intimidating, with their manes and their ferocious roars, but its the chicks you really have to watch out for.

How to overcome fear

The fact that lionesses do not have a big, recognizable mane actually helps them sneak up on whatever they are hunting. They lie in wait, hidden in the tall grass, motionless like statues.

I listened to a sermon by Pastor Brian Houston in which he said that the males do play an important, albeit small, role. While the females stalk their prey from behind, the king of the jungle will come from the front and let loose one of those roars that gives him his spot at the top of the food chain. This sound is so powerful it can be heard for up to five miles away. Hearing that terrifying noise causes the gazelle or antelope to run as far as they can away from whatever made that sound.

What they dont know is that as scary as it sounded, the one who did the roaring is more bark than bite. So away they go directly into the path of the real threat: the waiting lioness. In other words, the preys instincts are wrong. Going with their guts causes them to make the last mistake of their short, little lives. Its counterintuitive, but the right choice would be to override their emotions and run toward the roar.

Its shocking how often that is true. When you run from things that scare you, you move toward danger, not away from things that scare you, you move toward danger, not away from it. If you fail to face your fears, they will always be right there behind you. You must suppress the little voice inside thats telling you to get out of Dodge. It is not your friend.

When you feel that panicky fight-or-flight sensation and you want to run away, do the opposite. Run toward the roar. You have come into the kingdom for just such a time as this (Esther 4:14).

but like it or not, in ways small and large, we are all going to have to confront our fears or abandon our destinies. The only path to the haul of fish you are meant to catch and the lives you are meant to reach is to launch out into the deep and sail through things that are scary. Smooth seas never made a skilled sailor.

God calls us to go to places that frighten us so that we will fully trust Him. The only way for you to see God do the kinds of things He desires to do in and through you is to run toward the roar again and again and again.

I see this tenacity of spirit in the life of young David. When he confronted Goliath in the valley of Elah, he didnt walk to face the nine-foot warrior who was spewing out death threats against the young shepherd. He ran:

So it was, when the Philistine arose and came and drew near to meet David, that David hurried and ran toward the army to meet the Philistine. 1 Samuel 17:48

Its incredible that David was willing to fight Goliath at all. The fact that he sprinted toward what seemed like certain death is astounding. He killed the giant in the end, but first he had to run toward the very thing that terrified him the most.

What in your life are you being called to right now? Perhaps its a song you are meant to write or a church you are meant to plant. Maybe its pulling your children out of school to educate them at home or allowing your son to go to a public school so he can share his faith and be salt and light. Are you vacillatintin between the safety of a job you hate and the terrifying prospect of starting your own business? Maybe you are supposed to go back to school, or on the other hand, it might be that you should opt out of college in order to pursue a different kind of education.

I cant tell you what Gods will for your life is. There is no magic map. All I can tell you is that you must not let fear play a part in your decision making. You cant ignore fear, but you dont have to let it control you. I guarantee you Davids pulse thundered like a war drum in his chest, and everything in him urged him to retreat, but he still hustled toward the giant.

True bravery isnt feeling no fear its being afraid and moving forward anyway.

I know this for sure: Turning your back on the roar will feel good in the moment. You will feel a euphoric giddiness once you have put some distance between yourself and the lunacy you were considering. Cooler heads prevailed, you will think as you wipe the dust off your hands and prepare to return to business as usual.
But hiding in the thicket, far from the sound of the wild calling you are meant to pursue, is a far more sinister opponent you didnt even know was there: death. The death of the dreams God planted deep down inside you. The death of the life you were born to live. Like a slow leak in your tire that saps your ability to drive your car, you will have robbed yourself of the opportunity to stare down something that scared you. Live this way long enough, and the muscles of your faith will eventually atrophy. To quote the immortal William Wallace from the movie Braveheart,

Aye, fight and you may die. Run, and youll live... at least a while. And dying in your beds, many years from now, would you be willin to trade all the days, from this day to that, for one chance, just one chance, to come back here and tell our enemies that they may take our lives, but theyll never take... our freedom!

Yes, running toward the roar can be excruciating, and there are no guarantees. Its also possible to misjudge the direction of the roar you are trying to run toward. It could be a dead end. When you live a life of faith, there are going to be questions that have no answers, because for there to be faith, there has to be mystery. Thats just life in the deep end. It would be nice if we could have the safety of the shore and the potential of the open ocean at the same time, but thats not how it works. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. If you want to catch fish you have to launch out where the fiish live

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