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Article - Who is a Woman????

The bible said that in the beginning God created man and having seen that all he did was fine he made man to sleep and removed one of his ribs to create a woman. From this view point we can deduce that God created a woman to be by the side of the man not above neither to be under him. After creation man was lonely and needed a help therefore the need for a woman. If a woman was created to help a man we can also theorise that a woman is stronger than a man in some aspects. Suffice it to say that no one seeks help from a weaker being. Where and how is a woman stronger than a man, since man is physically stronger than the woman? The answer is in the indispensability of the woman. The tale that follows will help us reach a decision. 
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Who is a woman???

I think one of the unfortunate traits of human nature is that we feel a need to categorize people and this is evident in how we categorize women. We limit them and we say that she is, “that kind of woman,” and that kind of woman is categorized as one who is traditional or modern or a feminist or not a feminist or liberal or conservative or a virgin or a whore. The list goes on.

To me, being a woman, in the first place is being a human and recognizing the complexity that comes with all of that. Too often, we make people the sum-total of one characteristic or value that they may embody, and apart from the fact that people, believe it or not, are dynamic, they’re also complicated. I have come to notice the following traits about a woman;

When she is quiet, millions of things are running in her mind. 

When she stares at you, she is wondering why she loves you so much in spite of being taken for granted. 

When she says I will stand by you, she will stand by you like a rock. 

A very heart touching message by a woman. 
Someone asked her, Are you a working woman or a housewife? 

She replied: Yes, I am a full-time working housewife. 

I work 24 hours a day. 
I'm a Mum. 
I'm a Wife.
I'm a Daughter. 
I'm a Daughter-in-law. 
I'm an Alarm clock. 
I'm a Cook. 
I'm a Maid. 
I'm a Teacher. 
I'm a Waiter. 
I'm a Nanny. 
I'm a Nurse. 
I'm a Handyman. 
I'm a Security officer. 
I'm a Counsellor. 
I'm a Comforter. 
I don't get holidays. 
I don't get sick leave. 
I don't get day off. 
I work through day and night. 
I'm on call all hours and get paid with a sentence. WHAT DO YOU DO ALL DAY?? 

Woman has the most unique character like salt, her presence is never remembered but her absence makes all the things tasteless. 

When you’re a woman, you take responsibility for your life and for what you want from that life. And you might be afraid, but you go beyond that fear to define your womanhood, and not allow somebody else to define it for you.

Share to every woman to make her smile and to every man to make him realize a woman's worth.

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